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bizbro:
For me it’s alcohol, movies, sleep, you?
i dey go sleep, watch movies that one concern una
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Ablaf:
WISDOM DIGEST FOR TODAY 14/6/2025.
Topic: Keeping the Romance Alive in Marriage
Bible Verses:
“...Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth… Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; be intoxicated always in her love...” Proverbs 5:18-19
Romance is not a worldly idea—it is God’s design for marriage. ion, delight, and joy in one another keep love alive and sacred.
Listen again to Song of Solomon 4:9-10
“...You have captivated my heart… How delightful is your love, my sister, my bride! Your love is better than wine...”
Romantic love is poetic, expressive, and deeply intimate. God included this book to show that romance is holy within covenant marriage.
Christlike Behaviour:
Jesus was tender and thoughtful—even in deep agony, He cared for His mother (John 19:26). Romance is fueled by intentionality, comion, and thoughtfulness.
Ephesians 5:25 says, “...Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church….”
Romance is a reflection of sacrificial love, not mere emotions. It’s choosing to pursue your spouse daily.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 emphasized– “Love is patient, love is kind…”
True romance is more than feelings—it’s consistent actions filled with grace.
Christlike romance is not manipulative or selfish—it serves with joy.
Medical Perspective
Healthy romance strengthens emotional connection and physical well-being. Studies show:
Flirtation and touch increase dopamine and oxytocin, improving mood and bonding.
Romantic expressions help reduce stress and anxiety.
Playfulness and surprises ignite brain activity that enhances closeness.
Romance helps rekindle desire, especially in long-term marriages, and guards against emotional drift.
Application
Pursue your spouse like when you were dating.
Write love notes or send kind messages during the day.
Set aside time for intimacy—plan romantic evenings, express iration, and compliment generously.
Pray together regularly and express thanks for each other’s presence.
Keep things fresh—try new things together, like cooking a new meal, dancing at home, or a surprise date.
You don’t find romance—you create it through daily choices of love.
PRAYER:
Gracious Father, thank You for the beauty of romance in marriage. Thank You for giving us joy, attraction, and laughter as part of our covenant. Teach us to nurture our affection, to never grow cold in our love, and to express it through kind words and thoughtful gestures. Help us pursue each other with new ion and Christlike tenderness.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Final Words of Encouragement:
Romance is not a phase—it’s a spiritual rhythm you can cultivate. It revives what routine has dulled and deepens what time has tested. Keep the fire burning—not by waiting for feelings, but by fanning the flame with intentional acts of love.
“...Many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it…” – Song of Solomon 8:7
Your Beloved in Christ,
Pastor Olanrewaju G. L
Christ Leads Assembly Church
relationship yesterday today and tomorrow
make we change
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kpakpandoN:
During my regular morning prayer walk one day, I ed a joke. I was preparing for a ministers’ conference, so l tried to push the joke out of my thoughts. However, I sensed that God wanted to tell me something through the joke, so I allowed myself to think about it. During the conference, I shared the joke, which goes thus: A husband and his wife had been quarrelling for a long time. Things got so bad that they said they wouldn’t talk to each other anymore. One night, the husband, who was a heavy sleeper, wrote a note for his wife, “Darling, I have to catch a plane at 8am. Please wake me at 6am.” He placed the note on his wife’s side of the bed and slept. When he woke up the following morning, it was 8am, and his wife had gone to work. He was furious, and as he fumed, he saw a note on his side of the bed where his wife wrote, “Darling, wake up. It’s 6am.” After sharing the joke, God told me, “Tell My people: I won’t talk to those of you who don’t talk to Me.” God loves it when you talk to Him, and when you do, you invite Him to also speak with you.
When the disciples asked Jesus to teach them to pray, the first thing He said was, “When you pray, say, ‘Our Father…” (Luke 11:2). No father loves it when his children don’t talk to him. As a father, I enjoy it when my children spend time with me. 1 John 3:1 says that the Father has bestowed such great love on you by calling you His son. John 8:35 says that a servant doesn’t abide in the house, but a son abides forever. As God’s precious child, you have access to Him at all times. You can call on Him and talk to Him about anything, and He will respond.
If you’re a child of God, seek to be more intimate with your Father every day (Philippians 3:10). If, however, you’re not yet a child of God, then you cannot have access to Him until you acknowledge Jesus as your Lord and Saviour. If you were once a Christian but have backslidden and disconnected yourself from God like the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32), run back into His waiting arms.
Beloved, God longs and seeks for His children to worship Him in spirit and in truth (John 4:23). Fulfil His desire by speaking with Him continually.
Written by Pastor E.A. Adeboye.
God longs and seeks for His children to worship Him in spirit and in truth
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What a waste
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CapitalLens:
LAUDS FCT MINISTER OVER PROJECTS DELIVERY
Commissioning left right and centre yet no improvements in the welfare and lives of citizens
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TimeManager:
https://x.com/Femiakuti/status/1932877483071721892?t=WuvWIUJKmUUTzp-RATOo0w&s=19
Late Afrobeat pioneer Fela Kuti has been honoured with induction into the 2025 Grammy Hall of Fame for his iconic 1976 album Zombie.
Established in 1973 by the Recording Academy, the Grammy Hall of Fame recognises recordings that are at least 25 years old and hold enduring artistic or historical significance.
Inductees are chosen each year by a dedicated committee made up of distinguished and experienced professionals from various fields within the recording industry.
Femi Kuti, Fela’s eldest son, accepted the award on behalf of the family, describing the recognition as an “honour.”
“Our father’s legacy lives on. We are honoured to accept this Grammy Hall of Fame award on behalf of Fela Anikulapo Kuti,” Femi wrote on X on Wednesday.
“His music continues to inspire and unite people across the world.”
The legendary Afrobeat musician died on August 2, 1997.
Almost thirty years after his ing, Fela Kuti remains a powerful symbol of influence, celebrated for using his music to speak out on issues impacting Nigeria.
Following his early time overseas, Kuti rose to fame in Nigeria during the 1970s alongside his band, Africa 70.
In 1970, he established the Kalakuta Republic, a self-declared commune that symbolically rejected Nigeria’s military regime.
The Kalakuta Republic was demolished during a raid in 1978, and in 1984, Fela was imprisoned by the federal government under Muhammadu Buhari’s leadership.
Following his release, Fela remained active in music, recording and performing throughout the 1980s and 1990s.
Na those wey no know fela. If you know fela at close quarters you will understand somethings are overhyped
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Is this even necessary? As usual just for social media attention
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nlfpmod:
Birthday: Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala Turns 71 Today!
She sef don try e reach to celebrate
Wetin seun dey do sef
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brightDdon:
Doctors in the house
I greet you all
This thing started like a pimple and before I knew it has grown Big..
It inches me very deep and now not just inching but with severe pains
Couldn't sleep last night and I noticed the surface has become very reddish which I'm suspecting it want to take another phase of growth
Please what's the name and how can I get rid of it,,it's eating me dry with the pains
Can it be operated if yes what's possibly will be the amount to budget for it
Can I get rid of it traditionally?
I was told if I burst it will grow massively
Please I need your professional advise
I'll be at the comment section.
Thanks
use hot iron heated in fire with oil as you have come to the right hospital on nairaland
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igatit:
This is a true life story. The names of the true characters have been changed.
I USED ANOTHER MAN'S SEED (SPERM) BECAUSE I WAS INFERTILE
I got married to my sweetheart Andrea Asor Awen in Dec 2011 traditional wedding in Anyingba, Kogi state. I married the daughter of the famous "Alhaji Kampala". And then did the white wedding in February 18 2012 in Makurdi, Benue state.
After the wedding, we were so excited and looked forward to a blissful marriage. All our Amen's were in place, especially to prayers for children. After about 6 months into the marriage my wife didn't take in eventhough i was consistently performing my conjugal duties on a daily basis (no exaggeration) except when we had the monthly visitor which was very much not welcomed as at the time. Infact it always brought tears.
Then the Hospital excapades began, I will prefer not to mention the names of the doctors and hospitals because I didn't ask their permission to mention them in this post and it might protray them in a light that might be in my opinion unacceptable to them. But i sure appreciate them for every thing they are doing and medicine is a blessing, God uses Medicine also to help us.
I first of all visited a lab and did a sperm count and when the test came out, hmmm. The report said they was no sperm to even count. The news came so hard, oga you no get any sperm count.
This meant i was INFERTILE not IMPOTENT (know the difference). Boy, did I cry..I cried oooooooooooooooooooooooo😭😭😭😭😭. After all, Jesus too cried and it wasn't tears of joy. My wife of life was there for me. Thank God for this kind of wife, she was there petting me as i was sulking.
We now went to the hospital, and did more tests and results were the same. I started treatment alongside prayers, drugs became my steady companion and my curiosity always took me to the hospital for sperm count. I was always disappointed. I even went to this herbal guys one chief Ba.... Need i to mention, desperation can make you do anything. the man gave me those herbs that were bitter and I couldn't stand it and that was the straw that broke the camels back.
During this ordeal, the enemy suggested to me that God was punishing me for all the sins i ever committed...mtcheeeeew😏. I didn't know what i know now, i prayed and fasted, my wife did dry fasting two times at MFM and a little glimmer of hope.
The sperm counted but not up to one thousand ( Normal semen contains 40 million to 300 million sperm per milliliter. A low sperm count is considered to be anything between 10 and 20 million sperm per milliliter. Twenty million sperm per milliliter may be adequate for pregnancy if the sperm are healthy. )but it was really poor. One day i told God to just kill me nah.
At some point after another 2 years, My doctor suggested IUI (Intrauterine insemination) Intrauterine insemination (IUI) — a type of artificial insemination — is a procedure for treating infertility. The Urim & The Thummim. Sperm that have been washed and concentrated are placed directly in your uterus around the time your ovary releases one or more eggs to be fertilized.
which i paid for heavily and it didn't work. And he also suggested IVF which i declined and ofcourse I didn't have money for. At this point we tried several other doctors, one referral to another, and let me add, my wife too was running all kinds of tests and scans o. And continuous intake of drugs.
Finally i got tired, we had heard tens of stories of causes of infertility and most were tied to witchcraft, fathers house, mothers house, wedding gifts etc.
I decided if my seed (sperm) will not work, i am going to use another Man's seed (sperm). Infact i was told by one of those doctors resident in Abuja that i can use another mans seed(sperm), i can be given one with the kind of xtics for a child i like.
It occurred to me that i knew a man's that is just perfect.I knew a man's own that matched all the characteristics i desired. He is fine, good blood group, good health, rich and strong. His name is Jesus.
THE WORD SEED AS USED IN THE BIBLE IS THE ROOT WORD FOR SPERMA, WHICH IS THE WORD SPERM COMES FROM.
I studied all the cases of child delays in the bible, Mary the mother of Jesus, Hannah, Abraham, Samson's mum, Isaac and even Elizabeth etc i paid more attention to Abraham's because it had more evidence. All their conception came from the Sperma of Gods word.
After about 4 years and some months, in June of 2015, to cut long story short.
I was reading the bible and by the Spirit stopped on Mathew 18:19 and it felt like my room lit up with a bright light, the entrance of thy word giveth light.
The scripture says St. Matthew 18:19 Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.
Brothers and sisters, the moment this revelation hit me, I called my wife from the shop just Infront of our house into the parlour that day, she sat down and said how far. I read the scripture to her and i said this is the key to our conception. The Urim & The Thummim. I said to her excitedly, this verse will give us our Children.
I said how many of us are here? She replied just Two of us.
I said we meet the first requirement (IF TWO SHALL).
Second requirement, Shall agree on earth... I said babe where are we? She said on earth.
Thirdly, i said let us agree that this month we will concieve and nine months later you will deliver our first born son. We held hands and i declared Lord you cannot lie thank you because we asked for a child and we have agreed according to your word that it is done ALREADY (Past tense).
And from that day, i never did any sperm count again or even take any drug, Heaven bears me witness. Because i used the seed of God's word and we believed it is more than potent. The count is appropriate. We just maintained Thanksgiving for what we have already.
Dear reader, 9 months later exactly, our first born son came. (agreement in June, she missed her period in July, Noah Asor Aver Awen came march 18th 2016 do the maths). 5 months later my wife concieved again I didn't know the agreement continued because i was just playing my regular computer game😜 with no pregnancy in mind. My daughter Shine Mchivirter Awen came.
And on January 10th 2022 my 3rd born son Ethan Terseer Kashimana Asor Aver Awen Ahough Taku was born. How do i deactivate this seed?🤔
Ladies and gentlemen, there is nothing the seed (sperma) of Gods word cannot impregnate. Any dried situation, barren condition, dead and forgotten problem, demonic sickness, stopping satan in his tracks, pls apply the seed (sperma) of Gods word and believe.
On the 18th of February 2022 exactly, my wife and i just clocked 10years of marital bliss.
I say this boldly without mincing words MARRIAGE SWEET ABEG.
Hebrews 4:12 (AMP)
For the Word that God speaks is alive and full of power [making it active, operative, energizing, and effective]; it is sharper than any two-edged sword, penetrating to the dividing line of the breath of life (soul) and [the immortal] spirit, and of ts and marrow [of the deepest parts of our nature], exposing and sifting and analyzing and judging the very thoughts and purposes of the heart.
Happy 10years wedding anniversary to us"
Rest and Rejoice!
Source: Olufunke Gbarada (The Urim & The Thummim)
#perfectedlight #WaitingOnTheLord
#TheWordWorks #TestimonyFriday
#Testimony
na una know why una dey confess una sins for nairaland
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Slimyoung1991:
Am losing my hair slowly not feeling any pain up to some months now
I believe you can get help from the hospital na children full nairaland
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Lutherblaq:
Oh mah lord! This not good.
BTW is he the only British on the plane?
you need to read the body of the message to find answer to your questions
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